Thank you for your question! What is the invisible housework? As I understand and observe it, these are the invisible housework that we do it at home as long as we watch it very carefully. Here are the lists below:
Let us have a look at the kitchen as an example. In our inherit thinking, washing the dishes and cleaning the tables are all cleaned up our kitchen. In fact, there are some invisible works we need to do after a few months or few weeks. For example, after we finish our cooking, there are sticky oil stains in the wall and we have to use the rub to wipe and clean them regularly. In addition, it is essential to clean the cruet with no more than one month. Otherwise it is so greasy and breeding the germs and bacteria which is harmful to people's health. Furthermore, the kitchen ventilator should also be cleaned once a month and by doing so, we can make our kitchen feels brand new!
Another example of invisible housework is do the laundry in the washing machine. We can't put all kinds of clothes as the regular mode in the washing machine. Before the laundry, we have to collect the dirty clothes at first and make sure different categories of the clothes use various cleaning mode. After washing our clothes, we need to sort-out our clothes as air dry in the racks and collect all of them together! It really takes time to do it and costs energy.
Finally, for the last question of how to share the housework properly. From my perspective, I don't believe that the housework should wife do all of them. Cause the essence of the marriage is mutual respect and understand. It is our responsibility to undertake all kinds of housework and construct harmonious family atmosphere! Therefore, it is not worthwhile to argue with him or her what kinds of housework should you do or not, as long as we have free time and do it together!